Find the Best Sex and Kink Clubs in Los Angeles
Los Angeles boasts a vibrant and diverse scene of upscale, curated play parties for those seeking sensual exploration in stylish and inclusive environments.
Here are some of the most sought-after events and clubs in the city.
Scene from inside the Kinky Rabbit Club
🔥 Top Curated Play Parties in Los Angeles
Snctm - Dubbed the world’s most exclusive sex club, Snctm is inspired by Eyes Wide Shut and hosts black-tie masquerade soirées in Beverly Hills and beyond. Memberships start at $12,500 annually, with elite tiers offering access to private events. Attendees are vetted for aesthetics, status, and discretion. Snctm
The Play LA - A creative, sex-positive community that blends erotic art, performance, and play. Their signature event, “The Play,” is held every 4–6 weeks in luxurious venues across LA, including Bel Air and Malibu. Expect immersive themes, workshops, and a strong emphasis on consent. ThePlay.LA
Illuminaughty - A curated community for fit, active individuals in their 20s to early 40s. Known for its inclusive, no-influencer policy, Illuminaughty hosts events where members connect and play in a safe, welcoming atmosphere. Membership is free but requires an application. Illuminaughty
Club Joi - A private, on-premise lifestyle club catering to open-minded couples and select singles. Club Joi offers themed events like “Naughty Nighty Friday” and “Dress Like a Stripper Friday,” providing a safe and inclusive environment for exploration. Club Joi
Kinky Rabbit Club - Known for high-production, themed events with beautiful venues and curated crowds. Attendees praise the club for its welcoming atmosphere and attention to detail. While on the pricier side, many consider it worth the investment for the quality experience. Kinky Rabbit Club
For those looking for something more selective, the word of mouth only parties at Jeff & M’s are for those really in the know. Hosted at their Hollywood home, this sexy couple regularly curates the most exclusive playful group around. It’s a friendly sexy atmosphere where often everyone plays. Their annual Halloween Party is regularly called “the party of the year.” If you’re looking to dive into a pile of hot bodies and enthusiasm this is the place to find your people.
🔥 Featured Erotic Performance Events in Los Angeles
Slut Church LA - An avant-garde event celebrating sexual liberation through performance art, dance, and immersive rituals. Slut Church
Arouse: A Ceremony of Erotic Theater - An intimate fusion of erotic theater and ceremonial rituals, offering a sacred space to explore sensuality and consciousness. Arouse
Nude Noir - An exclusive black-tie masquerade and immersive performance exploring themes of eroticism and seduction. This avant-garde event offers a unique blend of art and sensuality. Nude Noir
Lucent Dossier Experience - A renowned performance troupe combining circus arts, dance, and fire performances in a surreal, interactive spectacle. Their shows are known for pushing the boundaries of erotic performance art. Lucent Dossier
Red Lace Burlesque Show - Known for extravagant and exotic burlesque and cabaret performances, Red Lace offers weekly shows that are both entertaining and interactive. Red Lace Burlesque
Off Sunset Festival - An annual street fair celebrating kink, leather subculture, and alternative sexuality, held in Silver Lake. The festival features a variety of performances and community events. Off Sunset Festival
Jumbo's Clown Room - A historic bikini bar in Hollywood known for its burlesque spirit and unique performances. It's a staple in LA's erotic nightlife scene. Jumbo’s Clown Room
🧖♂️ Bi + Gay Male Cruising, Spas & Bathhouses
Flex Spas Los Angeles - Located at 4424 Melrose Ave, Flex Spas is a 24/7 private men's club featuring an outdoor pool, steam maze, dry sauna, jacuzzi, gym, garden lounge, and private rooms. It's popular for nude sunbathing and weekend events featuring adult entertainers.
North Hollywood Spa - Situated at 5636 Vineland Ave, this spa offers two floors with a steam room, dry sauna, jacuzzi, adult video lounge, sun deck, and a 24-hour café. It's spacious and social, attracting a diverse crowd.
Slammer - Located at 3688 Beverly Blvd, Slammer is a no-frills, hyper-masculine environment catering to gear enthusiasts. Features include dark rooms, slings, mazes, video lounges, and fetish-friendly spaces.
Eagle LA - Located at 4219 Santa Monica Blvd. Leather and Levi bar with themed nights and a cruisy back patio. The vibe is Kink-friendly with a strong community presence.
🗓️ Discover More Events
For a broader selection of events, head to the NSFW Chats and talk to members in Los Angeles. There are always plenty of private, unlisted events worth getting invited to. You’ll need to be a member to get in, so apply here.
⚠️ Important Considerations
Consent & Safety: All reputable events prioritize consent and safety. Expect clear guidelines, and don't hesitate to ask questions.
Membership & Vetting: Many clubs require applications, photos, or interviews to ensure a comfortable environment for all attendees.
Dress Codes: Attire varies by event—from formal wear to themed costumes. Always check the dress code in advance.
Discretion: Photography is typically prohibited to protect guests' privacy. Violating this rule can lead to removal or blacklisting.
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